One thing that stood out for me in the discussion that we had was the matter of people being scared and afraid of making mistakes while in the act because we have this perception that there is no room for studpid mistakes, or weird moments in that department. What we also realized as being on of the fundamental problems that hinder unsatisfactory in the exotic field is the fact that couples do not talk about these things. Women are scared to tell their men how they want to be held, how they want to be kissed, what they want their partner to do to them whilst having sex. I mean, what is the point of having sex for the fun of it if you don't get screwed the way you want to be scrwed?
The silence and fear of engaging with our partners about these kind of things is what leads to the lack of hapiness in most marrainges and unsatifying experiences of love making, of sexual intercourse and of intimacy. We should learn that men are not psychic, they can not always guess if you are enjoying what they are doing to you, they can not always tell if they are satisfying you in that department.
I know some of you are probably thinking of excuses of why you keep quiet.... "Oh he is gonna get offended...His ego is gona be shattered". Stop making excuses for you men, don't under estimate the level of understanding that they are capable of having. If you show your man, and break it down in a way that is aimes at building your relationship, making sex more enjoyable for both of you, then talking about it is MOST DEFINATELY worth it.
Men.... I cry out to you to, you also have needs, tell us women what you want us to do to you, where you want us to touch you, what you want us to improve on cause love making is a two-way street....
Come on black women and black men..... Let's break the traditions that have hindered joy and hapiness in our relationships... Let us show good loving, leave a legacy for our children and generations to follow....
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